Is alimony out of question? Others get divorced. The children will adapt.
You sound miserable. That was the beginning of our problems because he could not work for a long time. More worrisome, a mid- to later-life split can shatter retirement plans.
Some of them may be wildly inappropriate for you.
Women are unhappy. Some of the repercussions for hiding assets from your spouse include a settlement that will give your spouse additional assets, a contempt of court ruling, or fraud or perjury charges. Making good decisions now will directly affect your life in the future.
Often one partner has a better understanding of the couple's finances than the other. My life is comfortable but I miss physical contact, kind words.
Our marriage has been totally sexless with no physical intimacy for as long as I can remember, over ten years at least. Just go look. He took his car and run away, already passed almost a week, the police said they cannot force him. Give yourself time to grieve and process and map out a plan to make the next decades the best decades of your life.
In other words, you'll thrive just fine without a new romantic partner, and should never feel pressured -- whether internally or externally -- to "get out there. So stop expecting her to do that.
We lived in a house that was mine, I had very good credit, a car, etc.
After all, what have you got to lose, right?